Only 3 Words

There are many things that you can do

to strengthen your relationships.
Often the most effective thing you can do

involves saying just three words.
When spoken sincerely, these statements

often have the power to develop

new friendships, deepen old ones

and even bring healing to relationships that have sourerd.

The following three-word phrases can be tools

to help
develop every relationship
1.Let me help.

Good friends see a need and then try to fill it.
When they see a hurt
they do what they can to heal it.
Without being asked,
they jump in and help out.

2. I understand you.

People become closer and enjoy each other more
when the other person
accepts and understands them.
Letting your spouse know
– in so many little ways –
that you understand them,
is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.
And this can apply to any relationship.

3. I respect you.

Respect is another way of showing love.
Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal.
If you talk to your children
as if they were adults
you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends.
This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

4. I miss you.

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened
if couples simply and sincerely said to each other “I miss you.”
This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
Consider how important you would feel,
if you received an unexpected phone call
from your spouse in the middle of your workday,
just to say “I miss you.”

5. Maybe you’re right.

This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument.
The implication when you say “maybe you’re right”
is the humility of admitting,
“maybe I’m wrong”.
Let’s face it.
When you have an argument with someone,
all you normally do is solidify the other person’s point of view.
They, or you, will not likely change their position
and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you.
Saying “maybe you’re right”
can open the door to explore the subject more.
You may then have the opportunity to express your view
in a way that is understandable to the other person.

6. Please forgive me.

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed
if people would
admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness.
All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures.
A man should never be ashamed to own up
that he has been in the wrong, which is saying,
in other words,
that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

7. I thank you.

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.
People who enjoy the companionship of good,
close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted.
They are quick to thank their friends
for their many expressions of kindness.
On the other hand,
people whose circle of friends
is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

8. Count on me.

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.
Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship.
It is the emotional glue that bonds people.
Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends.
When troubles come, a good friend is
there indicating “you can count on me.”

9. I’ll be there.

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night,
to take a sick child to hospital,
or when your car has broken down some miles from home,
you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase “I’ll be there.”
Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give.
When we are truly present for other people,
important things happen to them and us.
We are renewed in love and friendship.
We are restored
Being there is at the very core of civility.

10. Go for it.

We are all unique individuals.
Don’t try to get your friends to conform to your ideals.
Support them in pursuing their interests,
no matter how far out they seem to you.
God has given everyone dreams,
dreams that are unique to that person only.
Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams.
Tell them to “go for it.”

B o n u s :
11. I love you.

Perhaps the most important three words that you can say.
Telling someone that you truly love them
satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs.
The need to belong,
to feel appreciated and to be wanted.
Your spouse, your children, your friends and you,
all need to hear those three little words:
“I love you.”
Love is a choice.
You can love even
when the feeling is gone.

(These are 3 words too, right?)

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